I recently had a friend give me a call. I have not talked to this friend in a while but it’s always good to hear from her. She called me in a very flustered and upset state. Turns out that her boyfriend she is with now has an ex-girlfriend that has been playing the whole “I am gonna win him back at any cost” game. She recently heard that the girl had a signed note from her doctor saying that she was pregnant with HIS baby. Now this mad her upset seeing that the exact amount of months “prego” she is is also the same number of months that they have been broken up and done. She also has been spreading rumors that her and said boy are back together and all that jazz that goes on with this unique situation. However, there is one thing that made my friend pretty much go through the roof when she saw it with her own eyes.
Can all ya’ll guess what it is?
No?
She saw that she was no longer single but “In A Relationship” on her MySpace page!!!
**Cue music**
Bum Bum BUUUUUMMMMM!!!!
I calmed her down and had her actually think about the whole situation before she decided flying off at the seams and going all Lorena Bobbitt on him.
But this entry is not about her so to speak. It’s about how we are so reliable on this thing called MySpace and how much it rules some of us.
I have a MySpace page, I won’t deny it. I used it at first to network when I lived in New York. Then it slowly became a way to keep in touch with old friends and find new ones. I also, as of yesterday, have a Facebook page. It’s fun to have those things that are meant for putting up funny photos, comments and just sending someone a message to up their spirits for the day. There is nothing wrong with it.
I do have to say though it’s very odd and scary how much we rely on those said sites to update us on someone that we are in a relationship with.
If we are mad we will just move them off of our top 8, 16, 24 whatever one we have. We can send messages to others about how this person is bad and they will never know. We can also do the one thing that lets them know that we are totally pissed off and done with them. DELETED!!
I guess this entry is just me blurting about how much I hate that these things have taken over some of us.
How do you all feel about these sites?